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Hi Friends,

Yesterday was the "E" in ACE's Prom. She looked absolutely beautiful. She was so excited of what the night would bring and she went with expectations of having a great time. That she did.

Do you remember your prom? The "Dress" or "Tux", that I can remember, was the most important thing. We were lucky if we had a license to drive let alone a car to get there in. And what about the food? Who even remembers what was served? I think we had a DJ at my prom, but I can't be sure. I really barely remember it. I do, however, remember the dress and my date and what he wore. Yep...We have pictures to prove it.

I remember after the prom too. Going to the lake. Nothing exciting really happened. It was just the first night ever that I was able to come in after 12am. I really don't no what my expectations were and I guess it really didn't matter then or now. I guess it was the experience.

My "E" in ACE had quite the time she told me. "I'm having a ball!" were her exact words. She danced and ate crab balls and took lots of pictures with friends. I saw the key chain. Very nice. She also took advantage of the situation of coming in after 12am. More like the next morning with the sun up. Yes, I was very upset and disappointed that she would do that. She got the lectures from me and her dad. All she could say was "I'm sorry". Never mind that it wouldn't happen again. It's her last prom.

She, undoubtedly, will have a lot to remember over 20+ years. She will have stories to tell...some of which I'll never probably hear. Oh well. I don't think my mom and dad new everything I did.

Well the prom is over and now her life after prom begins. We have to still parent our children after prom and graduation or what ever the intro to their adulthood brings. The lectures may get shorter, but still, while they are beginning their new path, still influence their decisions by letting them know what is and isn't acceptable and what is and isn't appropriate. "E" in ACE...Just in case you read this....It isn't appropriate to come in the next day without permission from the ones who love you and care about your well being.

OK so what's the assignment? Any one of us that can tell our young people the safe rules in life that warrants lessons to be shared...share them and don't be afraid to do so. It doesn't have to be sugar coated, but if you prefer go ahead. Just be sure you tell the truth.

Thanks for reading.

Peace and Blessing Always,
T

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